Happy Birthday to you, Martin Luther!
You know what? I owe a lot of the enjoyment in my life to my involvement with the Lutheran Church and to the Church’s involvement with me.
Now, please understand, I’m not saying many of the great experiences I’ve had couldn’t have happened in other denominations; this is just a personal reflection, and I happen to have been baptized and confirmed in the Lutheran Church.
When I was a kid, I remember making our way as a family to our Church. We made our way through snow, on Christmas Eve for the candlelight service; after photos of new clothes on Easter Sunday (sometimes also through snow); on Wednesday evenings during Advent, and during Lent to get there in time for the soup dinners after my mother came home from work; on odd non-religious nights like Thanksgiving and New Year’s Eve; on multiple nights during Holy Week for the drama of a trial on Thursday and darkness of death on Friday, where the much-anticipated metaphoric loud slamming of a large book (“It is Finished”) and drama of the few Aramaic words we all knew along with dark sanctuary left silently was about the most solemn moment we knew; and just about every Sunday of my childhood for Sunday School and Church. We propped the sanctuary windows open in the humid summers, and we listened to the ticking and banging of the heaters in the winter. We went to church. It was a constant. And somehow through those services, and a celebration of the Church year, I heard the stories that would shape my life.
In the summer, my mom always signed me up for VBS. And I always went. I made friends, did crafts, learned songs, played sports. In fourth grade I started singing in the “Junior Choir.” You know, we weren’t much, but I spent one evening every week up the balcony of the empty church with a group of kids and we sang the songs of Avery and Marsh or sometimes Taize. I got to know a particular kid named George during those evenings, and thought “Wow! He can really play the piano!”
Later, when I started my own piano lessons, the Church Council was nice enough to say, “Sure. You are a twelve-year-old kid who needs a place to practice the piano. Why don’t you have this key, and just come here when you need to after school or on weekends or evenings or whatever to practice your lessons?” We had no piano in our apartment, and this was the only way to practice. I learned a lot about music in those hours at the empty church with a baby-grand piano, and I think I learned a lot about the Church too.
In high school, we had a lock in once and a “paper drive” twice. Those were our activities, and of course, I participated, as did the other kids in high school who went to our church. We made friends. We goofed around. It wasn’t splashy, shiny, or loud, but it still felt kind of spectacular, and I still remember moments from all three youth-group events during high school. There was this sense that we belonged.
We quickly figured out how to do things with other congregations in the area who had all kinds of activities for teens, and before we knew it we had a basketball team in the church league, and we were going to dances way the heck up in North Tonawanda, a lock-in in the aptly-named Lockport, and sledding with the kids from St. Peter’s on the Ridge. We even took the occasional bus trip to visit Lutheran Colleges for a weekend in the New York, Ohio, Michigan and Indiana area. We listened to late-night dorm-lounge sages who imparted the wisdom of their nineteen years to our eager tenth-grade minds. And, somehow, I found out that college was an option after high school.
And then, I went to Camp. The local Lutheran Camp was owned and operated by the churches in our area, and they let me go there for a week. One turned into two the first summer. The next summer it was four. And after that, I worked there for the whole ten-week season.
Changed. My. Life.
During college, 500 miles from my hometown, I worked at the local Lutheran Church leading the youth group. All I knew was this: it was all about relationships. Oh, there might be music. And there might be trips. And there might be servant events. And there might be games, snacks, study, and lots of laughs. But what we had was relationships. The adults in that congregation, along with the two Pastors, and those in the youth group proved it to me again and again. They made me feel like I belonged, and they gave me a chance to contribute.
After college, my old friend from Junior Choir, George, and I rode our bicycles 8,000 miles around the USA. Guess what? We stopped along the way and sang songs and made friends at Lutheran Churches, schools, camps and colleges. We thought we would camp for the 340 nights we were traveling. But at every stop, people would say, “You are not camping! You are staying with us!” And we did. Soon, we mailed our camping equipment home, and came to rely on the folks we met along the way. We played for nursing homes and pre-schools, juvenile-delinquent homes and honors students at Lutheran High Schools, a hundred K-8 schools and 50 or more Sunday services and Advent and Lent Wednesday nights. We learned about the Church. We encountered hospitality. We met families sustained by faith. We ate and drank with seniors in high school and well, seniors. We spent the night in 310 family homes. We received an education about the Church. And we met God.
After a sojourn in politics, I went to seminary at the Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago. All I can say is: the perfect combination of college and camp! Great new friends, CPE, theology, church history, squash, swimming, afternoon naps, little discussion/study groups, dinner with pals every evening – what could be more fun?
And somehow, by blessing, coincidence, good fortune or elbow grease, I’ve made a living for more than twenty years playing music informed by faith. I’ve spent a few hundred weekends with teenagers and their youth leaders at gatherings and festivals. I’ve had the thrill of traveling all around the world to perform and to meet people in their homes, at their jobs, and in their congregations every week for all these years.
I’ve had the chance to make friends in Germany from Berlin and Eisleben to Homberg-Efze, and to see my daughter baptized in the very church and font where Martin Luther was baptized. And, now, in the past few years, I’ve had the joy of helping put together a week-long festival to observe the events surrounding the Reformation, and to invite hundreds of friends to visit Germany and walk in the steps of Martin Luther.
I knew it was kind of fun sliding down the hill and playing crazy-tackle behind our church during VBS as a kid, but who knew where that path would lead?
So, hey Martin Luther: Happy Birthday. I’m not looking to debate theology, especially nuances, here. I just wanted to say thanks. Because for whatever reason, and through whatever series of circumstances, and by whatever accidents, twists, and perhaps divine interventions of history, there was a church in my hometown that had the word Lutheran out front, and it shaped my life.
Michael